Finding Submissive Friends

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There are times when a submissive will be required to change roles. Some assignments require that one makes the decisions. When it comes to taking the initiative. It is important to remain calm and collected. Just as in business or any sales company/ in order to make a sale, one must apply certain sale tactics. This is the same tactic/mindset that applies to making friends. This will guarantee succcess.

Just as with dating and eenteringinto any relationship, friendships require patience and effort from both sides. It is important to balance out one’s time first to make sure that personal affairs are in order in order for friendships to flourish.

Take care of you and meet your own needs first. Then prioritize and always ensure that you set boundaries whenever it seems like the friendship might be imposing on your time. When friends are preoccupied, it is important to have something to keep yourself busy. Do develop a life outside of your friendships. This will enrichen these friendships so that we you guys do reconnect again, things will be fresh and you will have a lot more to talk about.

Submissives like being listened to, so make sure you are attentive to what they are saying. Show concern and understanding for what they feel.

One of the barriers that usually comes as an obstacle Is being selfish.  As submissives we are usually on the receiving end of dominant types we are the ones who are being cared for and so when we meet other submissives it can be difficult to take initiative and step up.

Attimes a submissive has to assume the dominant role in friendships with other submissives otherwise nothing will ever get done. That is the role I have presumed. It is difficult as a submissive but very doable.  I have learned alot from master and try to incorporate what I have learned in a similar manner.

While friend shopping it’s important to never lose your cool. Not over anyone or any situation. It is not worth it. And at the end of the day if things don’t go as expected, then you just wasted your time on something that wasn’t even worth that much of your emotional energy.

I don’t want to rely on others to find fulfilment in life. I am the one who is responsible for my happiness; no one else can do that for me. This is helpful in developing meaningful friendships between (submissives) because (in order to ensure that the foundations of the friendship is not based on relying on another person to fulfil those (internal) cravings that we feel.

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